I was on a trip in italy for fencing and I dated a german girl. We hit it off and exchanged numbers, but on the last day of camp i found out SHE WAS 14!!!! HELP MEEEEEEE!!!!
When I was first reading, my “go you!” turned into an “oh… oooh,” and I was a little concerned for you. Then, I checked the Tatler poll responses and saw that you are a sophomore and therefore probably only 15. In my eyes, and also through a summer camp lens, that’s not that bad. And trust me, if dating down scares you now, don’t worry;: once you get back on campus as a sophomore boy, somehow those fears tend to magically melt away.
How to dispose of my Tatler issue after reading it. I need help.
While not having a Tatler archive is kind of #lame, I appreciate that you’re at least disposing of it after instead of before reading. Normally, I’d say return it to one of our distribution spots or give it to a friend, but perhaps more creatively, wrap up your ceramics project with it or use it to feed a bonfire (not promoting burning your Tatler copy).
what do you do when you cry easily, and when you do, the people you love tell you youre weak and dumb.
First of all, you are not weak and dumb for feeling your feelings! Expressing them is way better than suppressing them, and crying is just the reaction you’ll have sometimes. For the people you love: tell them that when you’re feeling down, it’ll help a lot more to have their support and comfort than to hear words that might make you feel even worse. For you: crying often takes a huge toll on your time and energy, which are both priceless. You can look for some other outlets to express yourself, like talking to a friend, journaling, or even turning your feelings into cool art.
is sophomore year really as easy as they say it is?
Coming from someone who is fresh from being a sophomore, it heavily depends on 1. how good your time management is and 2. what classes you are taking (so, no). I had friends who thought it was so easy they could add on another class and others who felt like they were close to seeing the end. It’s definitely a step up from freshman year, but it’s also the year when you learn how to manage yourself and deal with more on your plate, which will serve you well in the future!
