Hey Lakeside, the Advice Column is back for this fresh school year and under new management, aka me! Our beloved (former) advice columnist, Sachi T. ’26, has moved up the Tatler ranks and has landed in her new position as managing editor. Go Sachi! So now, I’ve been sworn in as your new advice columnist and come ready to answer all of your burning, deep, high school questions.
If I’m crushing on my friend but I’m not sure they like me back what do i do?
Ah yes, an age-old question to start our advice column journey! There are many ways to approach this, but let me give you a few options. First, you can just ask them outright. I know it’s easier said than done, and frankly, I would probably not have the guts to do so. But really, it’s the most direct way to get an answer. Worst they can say is no! Second, look for the signs. Do you catch them staring at you from across the room? Are they actively trying to reach out and spend time with you? Do you both feel comfortable with each other? Do you flirt with each other or do they act differently with you than with other friends? If you’re seeing this kind of behavior when they’re around you, there’s a good chance that they like you.
how do i get tatler writers to get their articles in on time
Now this, I cannot answer. Keep this between us, but the Tatler is always running late. Myself included.
How much, if at all, is it a red flag to be (good) friends with an ex?
Honestly, this situation depends a lot on context. I am a firm believer that there is too much narrative out there about having to hate your ex. Being friends with an ex can actually be a green flag in the sense that the romantic relationship ended on good terms and there’s the maturity to be platonic and realize that a relationship is better as a friendship. However, if said friendship with an ex doesn’t have boundaries, still has unresolved romantic feelings, and is making other people uncomfortable, then I think it’s a red flag.
How do you get sorted into a house? Is it just a hat draw?
While being individually sorted into a house via Sorting Hat would be pretty incredible, the way we do it here at Lakeside is just as fun. Essentially, the House Leaders of each respective House: Auslander (red), Trudgian (black), Nordhoff (blue), and Holcenberg (green), have each drawn different advisories to join the ranks and compete.
What’s your favorite color?
Aw, a personal question! Personally, my favorite color is a nice, bright pink. Highly recommend this lifestyle. Thanks for asking!
